You've been made redundant? Let's separate you from the job
If you've been made redundant, it can feel personal, but it isn't. The role has gone, not your strengths, experience or future. Let's reset the story and get you steady, practical and moving again ... If you've been made redundant there's a new future to discover! You hear the words, and your stomach drops: you've been made redundant. It sounds like a judgment on you, as if you've been assessed, found lacking, and removed. Yet redundancy is a business decision about a role, a structure, or a budget line, not a verdict on your character or capability. You can feel shaken and still be perfectly competent!That's not a contradiction; it's a normal response to uncertainty. The useful shift is this: the job has been made redundant, and you are leaving with every skill you built, every strength you've proved, and every personal quality that helped you succeed. They didn't get 'taken away' in the exit interview; they are still yours, intact. When you say you've been made redundant, your brain often fills in the gaps with unhelpful conclusions. You start rewriting your own story as if the ending has already been decided. It hasn't. A role can disappear because of a merger, a restructure, automation, a change in strategy, or a simple reduction in headcount, and none of that automatically speaks to your value in the job market. Once you make that distinction, you can start thinking clearly again. Clear thinking is what helps you ask the right questions and protect yourself, especially around your notice period, and how redundancy pay is calculated. The practical details matter because they buy you time, reduce panic, and give you control over the next steps.It's also worth noticing how language shapes your mood. If you keep telling yourself "Oh no! I've been made redundant" in the same way someone might say they've been “rejected” by a romantic partner, you're likely to carry shame into every conversation, application, and interview. If you remind yourself that your position has ended and you are still a very capable professional, you show up differently: steadier, more direct, and more persuasive. You may also need a reality check about money, and you deserve one that is calm rather than panicked and catastrophic. Redundancy pay, any accrued holiday, and your notice period can create a runway, even if it's shorter than you'd like. If you're eligible, jobseekers allowance can also help while you regroup; it's not a label, it's a bridge. If something about the process feels off, take | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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