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How to handle well meaning career advice and stay true to your goals

Dave Cordle

CREATED BY DAVE CORDLE

Published: 06/11/2025 @ 09:01AM

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Here's how to handle well meaning career advice without losing sight of your goals. You'll learn to listen politely, filter insights, and choose based on the skills and values you actually want to use. Get independent guidance and keep momentum on your path ...

Well meaning career advice, handle with caution, Follow your own path

Well meaning career advice, handle with caution, Follow your own path

You'll notice loved ones often recommend roles based on what they see you're good at, not necessarily what you want to do for a living. That's why defining the skills you enjoy, the values you won't compromise, and the environments where you thrive matters more than any generic career tips.

Keep conversations warm and light
while staying in charge!

A simple, boundary‑setting line like, “Thanks for that information and those ideas, I appreciate your support as I decide my next career path”, lets you handle well-meaning career advice while signalling you're the decision‑maker.

You'll also find that friends and family operate from limited data and their own risk thresholds. Treat their job advice as one single data point, not the entire dataset. Your route should be built from your own evidence: projects you loved, tasks that drained you, and the outcomes you want next.

You can create a simple decision filter to handle well-meaning career advice without derailing focus: does this path use the skills I want to practise, align with my values, and move me towards career goals? If any answer is no, park it politely.

You'll benefit from independent guidance
when the noise gets loud!

A qualified career coach such as myself can help you stress‑test options, map stepping stones, and choose strategies for professional growth grounded in your metrics, not someone else's fear or nostalgia; programmes like The Career Base Camp exist precisely for this.

You can refine your workplace mindset by scheduling input, not living in it. Set a weekly slot to review suggestions, compare them against your criteria, and decide next actions; the rest of the week, execute. That rhythm helps you handle well-meaning career advice without constant second‑guessing.

You'll make better calls if you normalise evidence over opinions: track experiments, quantify learning, note energy levels, and keep a running log of insights about career realities. Over time, this becomes your operating manual, turning loose job advice into clear, actionable direction.

When you've defined your path and built a robust filter, it becomes much easier to handle well-meaning career advice and keep moving towards the work that fits you best.

Stay gracious and be firm: listen, acknowledge, and choose for yourself.

Until next time ...


DAVE CORDLE
Career Development Professional

07941 690 391

www.davecordle.co.uk / www.linkedin.com/in/davecordle

Everything you need for your career:  www.davecordle.co.uk/basecamp

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If anything in my blog post resonates with you and you'd like some further help and advice with your career, then why not get in touch today? Call me on 07941 690391, visit my website at davecordle.co.uk to see ways I can help and support you, or connect with me on LinkedIn and let's start a conversation.

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About Dave Cordle ...

Dave Cordle 

I began my professional life training as a cartographer with the Directorate of Overseas Surveys, a department of the British government. I made maps of places such as Kenya, Tanzania, Malawi, Sudan and the British Virgin Islands. It was a fascinating time, being involved in planning the flights for aerial photography, interpreting the photographs and eventually producing the plates for the different layers of the final map.

It was during my latter years as a cartographer and my career in computing that I undertook bigger mountaineering expeditions to the Andes, the Himalayas, the Tien Shan and the Caucasus. At that time I also held various leadership roles in scouting. I coached and trained young people successfully leading them to develop themselves and embrace new experiences. So that’s where my passion comes from to help young people learn the strategies for success that I share with my business and career clients.

My journey in personal professional development and coaching has been amazing, and will continue to be so: it’s why I’m here, it’s my big passion. It’s what has informed my vision and mission.

However unlikely your dream might seem, if you keep taking steps towards it, even small steps, you may well just surprise yourself.

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